I am now registered for PS-MAPP classes, which is the Iowa foster parent training. The downside is it will not start until late February. In any event, I am excited to be taking a few steps further down the path.
In the meantime, I have been contemplating the two possible paths: foster to adopt or international adoption. I still feel like international adoption is something I'd like to try, but the cost is so astounding that I don't know if it is worth it. I also am torn about which country to adopt from. As a single woman, my options are limited. Right now I like Haiti, the Marshall Islands, Mongolia, Burundi, the Congo and Brazil as possible options.
As for foster to adopt, I am fascinated by the website adoptuskids.org which profiles kids available for adoption. Just about any combination is available: 2, 3, 4, or up to 12 kids. Boys and girls. Infant to 18 yr olds. All longing for families.
But in the meantime, I have to wait for the next step.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
One More Step
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Labels: adoption, Brazil, Burundi, Congo, foster parenting, Haiti, Marshall Islands, Mongolia
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Gomer: Unfaithfulness to Redemption
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Labels: Christian Life, Women of the Bible
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Jezebel: A Character Study
Jezebel flexed her muscle and convinced her husband Ahab to abandon his father’s God and worship hers, much like Solomon’s wives lead him astray. I Kings 16:32 relates that Ahab built Baal a new temple in Samaria. And in that temple, he placed an alter for Baal worship. Ahab also set up an Asherah pole.
Lesson Learned
So what can today's woman learn from Jezebel? First, there are consequences when we flout God's law. Although they may not be immediate, those consequences do come. Jezebel tried to ignore God's law and paid for it with her life and her family's lives.
Second, Jezebel, like all of us, is deeply rooted in the traditions of her family. We need to examine our lives to see what traditions (both good and bad) we carry over into our adult lives. Things like gossiping, substance abuse, anger management problems, emotional manipulation, overeating, over-spending, abuse and other bad habits may be deeply embedded in our lives via our family traditions and patterns. We must be vigilant to remove them from our daily life and thoughts, or we risk passing them to another generation of our families.
Self-centeredness or getting our own way without concern for others is a dangerous path. In Jezebel's case, it lead her to murder and theft. We can exhibit the same qualities when we steal time from our employers by talking on the phone or playing on the internet or when we assassinate another's character by talking about them. In God's eyes, these are still theft and murder and they arise from the same selfish part of the heart that Jezebel's actions did.
Finally, we learn from Jezebel about our God. He is powerful. He pursues us (just as He sought to prove to Israel his power). He desires that we keep his law faithfully. He is just, in that He does not let scoffers like Jezebel go without punishment.
Posted by Annette at 11:08 AM 1 comments
Labels: Christian Life, Jezebel, Women of the Bible
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Spiritual Discipline: Scripture Memorization
A few posts ago, I commented that I wanted to rethink how I do my own spiritual disciplines and look at how we teach spiritual disciplines in the modern American church. My first stop is scripture memorization.
My church is currently doing a sermon series on Romans 12, and as part of that, we read/recite the first two verses each week. I think this is a good (and sneaky) way to get people to memorize scripture without even realizing it. The repetition over several weeks certainly helps people think about the verse, and possibly commit it to memory.
I know that many churches have Awana programs that help teach and reward children for scripture memory, but I'm not sure how many programs exist for adults.
I never attended Awana, but we did do some scripture memory at church. I am always surprised when a verse pops back to me (not always with the correct citation) in times I need it. But I have recently felt the need to add more time in my schedule to devote to scripture memorization.
Of course, with anything I do, I have to figure out how to make it work in my schedule and not become another thing to check off. I suspect many people don't do scripture memorization due to the time involved. My current plan is to tape up a verse near my bathroom mirror to recite each morning and night. My hope is that within a week I will have memorized it and can move onto a new verse.
In the past, I have tried memorizing while I walk on the treadmill. I tried this first in law school when I was memorizing terms and concepts. A friend of mine and I would go to the gym with stacks of cards (available in any fine law book store) and study them, swapping decks half way through the gym session. This approach did seem to work, but my treadmill walking has fallen off during the nice weather outside. Never fear, this is Iowa and the weather is due to change any day now, making this method a possibility again too.
So how do you sneak a few verses into your memory? How do you think the church should encourage scripture memorization?
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Labels: Scripture memory, spiritual disciplines
Monday, November 8, 2010
Solitude
As an introvert, I thrive on being alone. I still need interaction with people, but I also crave the time to reflect, think, and plan that solitude brings me. In fact, I get grumpy and frazzled if I am forced to spend too much time in a large group!
Posted by Annette at 12:45 PM 3 comments
Labels: prayer, solitude, Women of Faith
Saturday, November 6, 2010
SEEL Retreat #3
Three retreats in, and I'm learning a lot. To recap, I'm doing an Ignatius spiritual retreat called "Spiritual Exercises in Everyday Life." Ignatius' idea was to complete the exercises within 30 days; we are spreading out the exercises over nine months.
We have focused on finding solitude and silence and longing for God. For the next month, we're looking at God's love.
One of Ignatius' foundations is that we will strip ourselves of our "inordinate affections" so that we can make decisions that are not based on disordered affections, but rather on what God wants for us.
I think this foundation is very true. I get skewed priorities and ideas that I need to set back aright. By remaining in God's presence through prayer, I learn about myself and about where He wants me.
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Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Election Day
I've already headed to the polls to vote. I love actually going instead of absentee voting because it evokes memories of going to vote with my parents. I was fascinated by the voting booth with its sliding curtain, levers to pull and buttons to push. They even had a sample machine that was Barbie-sized to see how things worked in the actual booth.
Another reason I love going to vote is to see my neighbors. It is amazing who you run into when voting. And, since you usually have time to chat while you wait, you can always make a few new friends.
Given the nationwide impact our votes can have, it is important that everyone exercise their right to vote. My motto is "If you don't vote, you can't complain!"
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Labels: Election