I've been trying to convince the kiddos that winter was coming and that their shorts and tank tops were not going to cut it. But whenever I brought up the subject as we shopped, it was ignored or outright rejected.
So I stopped buying summer clothing. This led to much angst from the preteen. Meanwhile, the only pants being looked at were skintight. I promptly informed the kids no more skinny jeans or leggings until we bought another style a few times. It seemed that the only shirts we could find were either tight, midriff or tank top. I didn't buy these either!
Today, I enlisted the aid of a few kids who dress in ways I like. We went shopping and amazingly, the choices selected were much more conservative and more appropriate for school.
Sneaky. But effective.
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Fashion Wars
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Labels: Fashion, foster parenting
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Routines, Schedules & Busy Days
I'm trying to stick with somewhat of a routine or schedule each week.
I seem to get thwarted by someone getting sick or a doctor's appointment or some special event (conferences, open houses, games etc). But, it does seem to be working.
In the midst of this, I'm trying to find time to just be together. Eating dinner. Watching TV. Goofing around. Doing homework (Or coloring if you are under 5).
Sometimes, this leaves me with little time to do things that I think need to be done (like housework!) or have discussions on a variety of topics (sex, manners, character, etc). I have been able to have a few discussions about these issues as they occur during conversations, TV shows or life events. I just wish I could be more intentional about it (but that could be my planning strength showing through).
I wonder if the routine and just plain ordinariness of it is why God exhorts the Israelites to remember His saving power. I know when I am trying to figure out what to cook for dinner (that doesn't have cheese, potatoes, spices in it), I'm not thinking about how complaining about manna in the desert lead the Israelites into major problems (but it might justify my plan to fix cheesy potatoes with extra garlic just to prove those food rules have no power in my house!).
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Labels: Christian Life, foster parenting, homework, schedule
Saturday, October 8, 2011
God's Grace Comes First
I'm reading a new book called Old Testament Ethics for the People of God by Christopher J.H. Wright. I'm only about a chapter into it, but it is a really igniting my passion for the Old Testament. I think most Christians want to skip over the old stuff and get right to Jesus. But this misses much of the story.
One of Wright's first points is that God's Grace always comes first. Before God gives the law to the Israelites, He first saves them from Egypt, leads them to meet with Him, and calls them His people. It's not about keeping the law, but celebrating God's grace to save us.
It is so much easier to view the Old Testament as a collection of old stories, poems, and rules that have no application to me in my life. Jesus is the answer. But Jesus himself revered and kept the law. Recited the stories and poems found in the Old Testament.
I know that I need new eyes to see the whole of the Bible and to apply it to my life. Hopefully, Wright's book will be a big help in that process.
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Labels: Christopher J.H. Wright, Hebrew, Old Testament
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Bedtime Snacks?
I've never been a fan of bedtime snacks. In fact, I hate eating after 7:30 p.m. because I find I don't sleep as well as when I eat earlier. So, when kiddos moved in, they had been used to eating a bedtime snack. This led us to one issue of adjustment.
I promptly ended that little bedtime ritual. Now snacks only happen at night when someone is taking medication that needs food to be eaten with it.
Occasionally, I read other blogs and news stories that expound on how wonderful it is to feed kids before bedtime. I'm not fully convinced. It seems like a bad habit to start, when eating before bed is adding calories when metabolism and calorie burning is at its slowest. If I'm feeding them plenty at dinner, why do I need to add more food a couple hours later before they sleep?
What I've noticed is that once in a while, the kids ask for a snack before bed. Most of the time, this is after we've discussed food or watched an ad on TV for the latest snack item. If I ignore it, they forget about the snack and go to bed. No one has yet woken up in the middle of the night complaining of being hungry. In fact, I sometimes have to threaten them to eat breakfast because they are not hungry.
The other thing I've noticed is that the snacks they ask for at bedtime are sugar snacks, not healthy ones. To the extent that they get one, I've made it be carrot sticks, apple slices or a glass of milk. Once, when given these choices, the kid decided to not eat anything (I think the hope was for a chocolate chip cookie).
I still wonder if this is the right approach or not, but since the kids seem to be growing at a healthy rate, I'll assume it is.
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Labels: food, foster parenting, parenting
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Toby Kruse named GM of Knoxville Raceway
On Wednesday, Knoxville Raceway announced that Toby Kruse had been selected by the Marion County Fair Board as general manager and promoter of the raceway. Kruse will take over from retiring Ralph "Cappy" Capitani at the end of the year.
Kruse has extensive experience in motorsports, ranging from announcing, flagging, occasionally driving, and managing both Marshalltown Speedway and Beatrice Speedway.
As someone who has attended many races at Marshalltown and Knoxville, I am excited that Toby will be taking the helm and I anticipate good things!
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Labels: Knoxville, Knoxville Nationals, knoxville raceway
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Bellingham Bay Half Marathon
I finished the half marathon!
In around 4 hours.
And with only 3 HUGE blisters.
I wasn't sure when I got to mile 8 if I could make it or not, as I started feeling terrible. But after a couple advil and some extra water, I powered through.
The medal is beautiful.
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Labels: Bellingham Bay Half-Marathon
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Tomorrow is the Day!
I'm ready to walk my first 1/2 marathon tomorrow. The course literally goes over the water at points and the elevation is not too bad (a few hills).
I'm still hoping that I can finish the race, but giving myself grace in case I don't make it.
The weather forecast is rain and around 65 degrees. The temp is perfect but the rain would not be so good.
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Labels: Bellingham Bay Half-Marathon