As an introvert, I thrive on being alone. I still need interaction with people, but I also crave the time to reflect, think, and plan that solitude brings me. In fact, I get grumpy and frazzled if I am forced to spend too much time in a large group!
Someone asked me how I could spend so much time alone. I find there are always things to distract you: television, radio, books, the internet, friends, housework or exercise. I don't even realize most of the time that I am alone.
On the other hand, I wonder how people spend so much time together! When do you find time to think things through when you are constantly interacting with others?
Like most things, God intend us to enjoy a balance of time together and time in solitude. Jesus modeled this to us during his lifetime.
I find comfort in the fact that Jesus took time to himself. In solitude, he would pray and talk with God (Mark 1:35, Luke 5:16, Luke 6:12). Occasionally he'd let a couple disciples come along with him, but the multitude did not get to intrude in this time (Matthew 26:36, Luke 9:18, Luke 9:28).
Have you ever wondered what Jesus prayed about? What did he need to say to God on a consistent basis? Why was it important to him to spend the time in solitude? What benefits would solitude have for us today?
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